Judge them by their face?

When I was in 5^th standard, I hardly had a sense of judging people by their face. I grew up listening to one famous quote in Hindi “Shakal pe mat ja” (means: don’t go by the face). But who knew this quote will have deep impact on my subconscious mind and I will start judging people by the face rather taking time to know them.

My School gave me ample opportunity to recognize different people, different faces and different characteristics. People whom I found cool are still holding the same personality. People with no or limited sight are still acting like frog in the well, and people suppose to be wealthy are wealthier. I think I developed that sense of identifying people by their faces and more or less I am right. Even today!

If I have to categories faces and analyse their qualities (which is fun to do and no offense to anyone), I am sure I can very much do it with conviction and you will also feel connected after reading this. I am sure you must have also faced the similar situation at different occasion, but we never bother to pay attention to our subconscious mind, especially wen it comes to being judgmental looking at someone's face (actually there is nothing wrong in being judgmental without knowing someone). Here I am restricting myself by writing about only male faces and not female (which I am not very good at nor GOD)

So lets start with basic categories in identifying faces:

1. Cool face: This is very rare category and mostly found in Rich or Wealthy species. Only 10% of such faces are found in your school's class of 60.This people are cool by attitude and they don’t have to struggle to look cool. It’s in their attitude which apparently comes from their parents and surrounding factors. Generally reserve by nature and thinks they are different, though not egoist. Generous by nature and sometime humble too. This is very popular category amongst girls in the similar status or having the same characteristics. (These types of girls are more in numbers than boys, so for boys it’s obvious to target those girls). I used to feel jealous of this people not because of their wealth but their cool attitude and being popular amongst the most desirable girls in the school.
2. Dumb Face:        Exactly opposite to the first category and really annoying community because of their dumb in all the situations. Close to 30% of the class witnesses such idiots. Clueless with what are they doing, how are they doing and where are they doing (here doing means public act, before you let your imaginary horses fly I thought I should stop you) without realising the sensitivity of the environment.  You will find them in their identical group and god has given them to identify another dumb fellow mate to make pair with. They are generally popular and engage with their close group members with excellent bonding.
    
3. Confident Face: This is a popular category of the entire categories for their knowledge and wisdom with confidence. About 20% of the class comprise of such talents. Most popular amongst majority girls in the class but not in the cool face category girls. This people are sincere and hardworking. They have too good rapport with cool and dumb faces both. Sometimes through their confidence they score an extra point and rewarded with getting cool girl away. But this is rare and one of case. Always enthusiastic about sports and extracurricular activities and sometimes found as class monitor.
4. Overconfident Face: Funnier then dumb and confident then confident face, that’s overconfident idiots. You will always find good 10% of the class is blessed with this faces. Big talk, big dreams unachieved. Always suffers due to their overconfidence and lag behind the rest. Tendency to mess up the situations, be it sports NCC or any other class. One time wonder and manages to get their fellow classmates under their awe. They are street smart and manage to impress teachers. Decent scorer and well scorer in sports and extracurricular activities. They think their over confidence is their biggest assent with which they can pataofy any girl in the school (forget the class). Fun to be with and listen to their boasting stories.
5. Blank Face: About 10% class is like this, no expression and takes things very neutrally. They really don’t bother what’s going on in the class & off the class. They hardly cares what others are talking about them. They have their own perspective in life, no aggression, no depression and no regression. They will be like obedient sheep and believes in do as directed. You know sometimes I wonder how can someone pass his/her entire life being blank (Not literally blank but they invariably struggle to get the expressions on their face)
6. Serious Face: last 20% is pretty serious faces you will find in a class of about 60 (I am taking 60 because in my school I had about 60 classmates studying together). Looks Serious about their life and need for achievement is very high. Mature than the age (sometimes found with grey hair) and always engage in improving their performance (I am still trying to figure out that does this quality actually helps in real life?). But its not their fault, if you meet their parents they also look pretty much similar to what their son/daughter is. Try to score higher, usually score good marks and mostly first bencher. Oh god! some time I use to feel complex looking at their dedication and maturity. (thank god! I don't have it in me)

Now who says do not go by the face? I can bet that if you follow your instinct and read carefully each face, you will realize that life is no different than school in real life. Judging people is not a rocket science nor you need an iota of experience with you. Whatever we see and experience by subconscious mind we can actually apply carefully to judge people in the first meeting itself. E.g. Cool faced people are always popular and successful 9you will not agree to this, its subjective) because they get the best in their life no matter how are they performing, their family wealth & culture will always take them to different level in life. On the contrary overconfident fools will realise sooner or later about the reality of their being overconfident. In the entire category I have observed that the category which suffers the most is serious faced people. They are not realistic and expects too much from themselves. Their need for achievement is what keeps them going. At the end they really have to suffer a lot if they fail to achieve the desired results.

This observation has helped me in judging people and holds true in any situations in personal or professional life. You go from school to college or postgraduate college, corporate to doing your own business, I am sure all of us have seen these faces around us, but now try to relate with what I wrote and try to recall about their current condition be it your friends, family or any other person you know with such faces

I am sure next time when you see a face you will be judgmental and why not be? Because there is everything written on one’s face.